2018-6-10 Daily Inspirational Vlog -Forgiveness

[0:00 - 0:07] What up y'all it's your boy Chance and I'm back with another inspirational vlog because
[0:07 - 0:13] I know it's been a while but I just kind of wanted to talk to you guys about something
[0:13 - 0:22] real quick something that you know not a lot of people understand or if you do understand
[0:22 - 0:28] you'll get where I'm coming from like if you have been through this situation and that
[0:28 - 0:37] is forgiveness and I know there's a lot of you out there that feel like you know you
[0:37 - 0:45] can never really forgive someone for something they may have done to you something they may
[0:45 - 0:55] have done to somebody else but I'm currently going through that situation myself with
[0:55 - 1:08] my birth father whom I've never met he's actually coming here in October and I'll
[1:08 - 1:14] make sure I've honestly guys and tell you exactly what happened the day I was born my
[1:14 - 1:22] biological father the one that's coming here in October went to jail he actually went
[1:22 - 1:33] to jail for statutory rape against the minor the girl was 16 and yeah he was in jail till
[1:33 - 1:45] I was about 21 I'm 27 now so he got out when I was 21 and you know over the years I just
[1:45 - 1:56] grew this hatred for him knowing what he did and like I couldn't help it and you know
[1:56 - 2:01] I know it's been a long time since he's done it you know he's gotten his life back on
[2:01 - 2:10] track he's actually getting married here soon to another woman if you guys are wondering
[2:10 - 2:15] what happened to my biological mother she actually passed away in a house fire many
[2:15 - 2:22] years ago on my birthday and I didn't know until many years later none of us knew but
[2:22 - 2:31] it didn't really hit me that hard because I didn't really knew my birth mother so but
[2:31 - 2:37] fast forward from then to now you know my biological father like I said he's getting
[2:37 - 2:49] married soon he's got his life back on track he's actually working again so but you know
[2:49 - 2:59] even now I'm still trying to find it in me to forgive him and you know it's like as much
[2:59 - 3:06] as I want to it's like I just can't seem to bring myself to do it as hard as it is
[3:06 - 3:13] but I'm trying really hard I'm trying really hard to forgive him because I know he's not
[3:13 - 3:20] like that anymore but it's still it's hard and for those of you going through similar
[3:20 - 3:36] situations and somebody hurt you really bad or something just forgive that person like
[3:36 - 3:43] no matter what they've done to you try to forgive them because you only live one life
[3:43 - 3:51] and life is way too short to stay angry at somebody I've learned that lesson multiple
[3:51 - 4:07] times in my life I've learned that many times in my lifetime you know I've had people that
[4:07 - 4:14] were so angry with me that they never spoke to me again until several years down the
[4:14 - 4:25] road went by and they learned to forgive me but if you are angry at somebody forgive
[4:25 - 4:34] them instead of spreading hate spread love to that person show them that you still care
[4:34 - 4:41] forgive them for what they've done and said because like I said life is way too short
[4:41 - 4:51] to be wasting time on being angry or hating somebody because no matter what that person
[4:51 - 5:06] did like whether they did it to you or somebody else no matter what that person did nothing
[5:06 - 5:12] hurts them I guarantee you nothing hurts them more than you not forgiving them because
[5:12 - 5:18] I guarantee you if you sit down with that person for a couple minutes I guarantee you
[5:18 - 5:27] they'd be willing to talk to you and you guys can work things out you know so if you are
[5:27 - 5:32] going through that rough time right now I want you to you know pick up that phone call
[5:32 - 5:39] that person you know talk to that person text them do whatever you have to do to get a
[5:39 - 5:46] hold of them and just talk to them and tell them that you forgive them because I guarantee
[5:46 - 5:51] you if you tell them that you forgive them for whatever you've done or whatever they've
[5:51 - 5:59] done I guarantee you that'll brighten up their day or their night depending on where you
[5:59 - 6:12] guys are at but that'll brighten up their day so much more than you can imagine so
[6:12 - 6:24] stop being angry stop being angry at that person and forgive them because forgiveness
[6:24 - 6:34] is the most powerful thing that we can have and yeah I know we're only human we're gonna
[6:34 - 6:42] make mistakes we're gonna mess up sometimes we're gonna do things that most people don't
[6:42 - 6:54] like and I get that but also it's our jobs it's our job as human beings to forgive those
[6:54 - 7:01] who have hurt us and there's a quote that my brother is exactly saying always lived
[7:01 - 7:10] by and always told me before he had passed away and that is forgive those forgive those
[7:10 - 7:20] who have hurt you and remember those who have made you smile which means you can still
[7:20 - 7:29] be mad at somebody but you can also forgive them for what they did and you always want
[7:29 - 7:36] to remember the good times with that person no matter who you're mad at forgive that
[7:36 - 7:46] person tell them you love them give them a hug you know if it's your mom your dad
[7:46 - 7:51] whoever I don't care who you're mad at just tell them that you know you forgive them
[7:51 - 8:01] for what they've done and try to make peace with that person because that's the best
[8:01 - 8:09] thing you can do and somebody's life who has done wrong is to forgive them because
[8:09 - 8:24] they hurt just as bad as you do maybe even more so like you might be mad at them but
[8:24 - 8:31] they feel worse than you do because they feel like you hate their guts like you no longer
[8:31 - 8:42] want anything to do with them so do yourself and them a favor do the right thing and forgive
[8:42 - 8:53] them that's the best thing you can do for somebody thanks guys this has been champs
[8:53 - 8:59] with another daily inspirational vlog I know it's been a while now that I'm back I will
[8:59 - 9:05] be vlogging a lot more and I will be doing more reaction videos those are coming those
[9:05 - 9:13] reaction videos are coming guys so don't worry but with that being said guys I hope
[9:13 - 9:21] I made your night or your day a lot better now I guess it just call up that person or
[9:21 - 9:28] write them or text them and tell them you forgive them I guarantee you that little
[9:28 - 9:34] bit of forgiveness that you show to them that'll go a long ways that will go a lot
[9:34 - 9:42] further than you think so stay safe guys I love you all and I will see you guys in
[9:42 - 9:48] the next vlog man love every single one of you guys and remember you are unique you
[9:48 - 9:54] are beautiful you are one of a kind you are epic you are amazing you are beautiful and
[9:54 - 9:56] you are awesome